40m coming back from a 20 year hiatus, been using dating app for a year, saw a dozen of women. I know it’s not a lot but at my age it’s as good as it gets. I don’t think I did terrible in dates as no one has outright walked out or left early. Some stayed for a whole day and others followed up with more dates, but sooner or later they all lose interest. It‘s not obvious to me what I’m doing wrong. Seeing most of my friends are either married or about to, I figured it can’t be that hard, but apparently it is? How many women do most guys see before finding their mates? Are we talking 10? 20? 100?