So my issue is that I think I'm very sensitive at some times and at other times I'm not.
Say I'm using a vibrator, I have to try so hard to make myself last more than 5-10 seconds and I'm not exaggerating. There was this rickety old bus I was on and i was sitting on the back seat and I came just from the tremors of the bus giving me friction even though I was trying really desperately not to.
But, when I'm with a dude, even though I do come in a reasonable amount of time, it's not really the same speed. want to know what I'm doing wrong in this situation. Please don't tell me it's about the vibrator dulling my sensitivity because I've had it only about a month and this issue has been going on for years. How do I increase my sensitivity when I'm with a guy?