So I'm in a pretty healthy relationship, we've officially been together for about 1,5 years and recently moved in together (yeah I know sounds too soon but the circumstances were to good to not do it and we basically spent every day together anyways).
We don't have any real issues and it's mostly in my head as it tends to look for problems all the time. So a friend of hers is on vacation and they started texting more (not really a problem, I know him well and they've been friends for a long time and there's never been attraction bla bla bla)
Now, my real issue is that it still bothers me, not that I feel like she might be texting something inappropriate or that she'd be cheating or anything else, it just bothers me when she texts a lot with male friends. That's why I started wondering if the reason might be some underlying trust issues or smth similar because if I would 100% trust her, this shouldn't bother me, right?
We've been friends before we got together and her last relationship was pretty messy so I'm not sure either if jealousy regarding her ex might've started some kind of general jealousy thing.