My boyfriend just basically told me that he doesn’t feel he should have to help me clean because he doesn’t care as much about a clean house as I do, therefore he shouldn’t have to help me keep the house clean. He doesn’t think he should have to DoorDash at all because he’s full time and I’m part time (part time is still 30+ hours sometimes 40 during busy weeks). So I asked him if he thinks he should just get to work and play games all the time and he said “for the most part, yeah.” And he said I don’t have to clean, I just choose to. Like. I don’t WANT to clean, but I don’t want to live like a dirt ball and he said “I don’t think we do.” So I essentially get to work, clean the whole house, and then DoorDash as well. With no help. The house is getting dirty again and I haven’t been doordashing because I’m exhausted. We have to DoorDash because we just moved and got new jobs and have to make rent while we are waiting for our first paychecks.
Is that fair to me?