I’m a bit confused about something my boyfriend told me and I’m wondering how common this is.
He said it turns him on when I’m more passive in bed, like when I’m not super into it or not actively participating, and just kind of “letting him.” That part is what’s throwing me off. I do enjoy sex, but hearing that he likes it more when I’m not really in the mood made me feel a bit weird.
I’m trying to understand if this is a common thing for guys, like a control/dominance kink, or if it’s something else? I don’t want to judge him, but I also want to feel comfortable and actually want what’s happening.
Has anyone experienced something similar? How did you handle it?