My boyfriend (35) and myself (35) have been together about 7 months. He has had a high sex drive from the beginning but I almost never get off. (Maybe 3 times since we started dating)
He likes to have sex everyday or multiple times a day but it mainly consists of him bending me over and just going until he comes. Then its done. It honestly feels like a chore at this point even though I'm just bending over to let him do his thing.
I feel no romance, no intimacy and I dont even want it at this point. I like to feel connected during sex and this just doesn't feel like connection to me.
I think he's fine with this except I'm sure he'd like to have sex even more. Even when I'm on my period he makes sure we make it happen or I feel guilty.
I just don't know what to do anymore. I love this man and he's a great boyfriend outside of the sex but I think its such an important part of a relationship. I'm so torn. I want magic 🙁