As the title says , I started a job 2 yrs ago, biggest step in my career. I was so nervous because this is the first time others I felt under qualified.
However, I feel like no one here likes me. I give you examples: we recently hired someone and managers already a lot more friendlier with him than with me. Co workers are kinda short with me and all we really “get along with” is gossip.
I also recently found out that I am the only person who doesn’t have one on ones with my general manager and meet with the assistant manager instead. Even the new guy meets with the GM.
When I asked the assistant as to why this is, he said the new hire reached out to them herself.
I’m crushing it in my job but all in all feel like I’m left behind and get a bad feeling when I see stuff like this at work. I don’t know if I have a distorted perception or what I’m feeling is valid.
Also to add, I’ve felt like this and treated like this at most of my jobs. Yes, I know I’m the common denominator but idk what I do that prompts these types of behavioral response from people.
Personality wise I used to be a lot more outgoing but nowadays don’t even have any friends or go out at all. I’m open to any suggestions