I am seeing someone who is not exactly my ideal type for around 3months now. He generally meets my basic requirements (which is why I started going out with him in the first place) but he is very soft – hearted
I feel attracted to someone who is initiative and competent , but he is rather mild – mannered and sometimes I wonder if he is too naive…
So whenever it feels like he is too soft or naive, it feels a bit off…
Should I tell him how I feel or is there anything you would suggest I’d try? I could really use some advice