Hi. I just want to gain some insight. I saw that my husband left his PC on in his office when he went to work. So I opened it to see if anything was still running so I can shut it down or let it run. Not wasting electricity.
When I opened it bittorent was open and downloading was complete. These were porn videos. I know men usually watch these, not judging on that. But you see we haven’t been intimate in a while.
He used to be the one always “in the mood” but now he’s always so busy and tired from work. I know he’s not cheating, I trust him on that. But when I ask him for some sexy time, again, he’s tired or busy. He doesn’t even want to cuddle in bed anymore.
What frustrates and troubles me is that he’s in there downloading and watching these (maybe even doing some alone time action) instead of just being with me. Am I the problem? Do I not satisfy him? What should I do? Can someone explain why men do this?