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Hot women love me in person, won’t respond on apps. I think 10 years of being on apps and being trashed on are we dating the same guy (worst thing I did was date multiple women and not commit to any of them) seems to have ruined me on apps. The same women that would not match wit me in my city, the same type of women matches me in any other city. It feels a little weird to have a tarnished reputation especially when my biggest offense is just being a single guy on the apps, dating around like all the girls on the apps do. I try not to take it hard but it is what it is
I feel like these threads often skew negative, so I want to hear about things you saw in a person early on that seemed like yellow/red flags, but turned out to be non-issues, or even positives, once you got to know them more.
For the ladies who date men, what does your ideal intimacy timeline look like?
Yesterday this discussion scratched the surface, and I was very surprised — not when it comes to sex, but when it comes to kissing.
What are your physical expectations by the 2nd and 3rd date?
Through a fun series of events, the guy I’ve been seeing for 3 weeks is meeting my dad tonight 🙃 My family is honestly very chill and easy, they love everyone, so it’s not a big deal beyond the societal pressure of “meeting the parents”. That being said, I’m definitely not in the habit of introducing men to my family this early 😂 We aren’t even official yet! Wish me luck lol