so, i’m a 21 year old woman, and i’ve always struggled with sexual exploration. i was pretty hypersexual as a child, and i discovered masterbation at a young age and was just generally more curious than others were at my age, but even at my age now, i still can’t seem to orgasm well. i’m also a virgin, for context.
i get horny, and i get the general build up of an orgasm, but the release isn’t exactly an orgasm. it’s like i’m just horny and then i’m not. there isn’t a wave of pleasure or anything. in fact, the only time i’m ever
able to orgasm is in my sleep for some reason.
i’m also on anxiety meds because i have horrible nightmares and sleep paralysis, and the meds are known to cause a lack of a sex drive, but this problem started before i started taking those, so im not sure what’s wrong.
i also bought a small vibrator recently and began experimenting with it, but it doesn’t seem to be helping. the vibration doesn’t feel good or bad. it’s just like i’m numb, even when i use it while wet. it doesn’t get me anywhere.
any advice? i feel broken lol.