Hi, we have been dating for 7 months now. Initially it was great, there was fire, and we both had orgasms every single time. Now, we became a bit exclusive in our relationship, he barely gets hard. He initiates foreplay but doesn’t get hard. I try to give him a blowjob, handjob but nothing seems to be working (for the past 5 times). He apologizes after that and I try to act normal. I tell him it’s fine and he doesn’t have to be harsh on himself. But deep down I keep wondering, if I am not hot enough for him? Or if he lost interest in me? Would he cheat on me if this continues?
Provided, everything apart from the sex is going so well. We are literally like best friends. But these thoughts are eating me up. I have reached a point where I am not able to look at myself in the mirror without noticing every tiny flaw in me.
Edit- he seems to do it fine while masturbating. It’s just when with me he’s having this problem