Hi! A few days ago I asked about the right time for an exclusivity talk:

https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/s/u0JrQhGdh7

Thank you for all the nice replies, I want to give un update.

I had the conversation, it was nerve-wrecking but it turned out good. I noticed on the last date he was more affectionate and cuddling, I told him I was a bit in my head in the last days and somehow he grew closer to me. So, I took my courage and asked. He said in his mind we were already esclusive, and we agreed on not look for any other kind of situation (date, casual sex etc) and concentrate on us. We both need more time to keep knowing each other and see how it goes.

I am still very scared, because I start feeling the attachment but will do my best to enjoy this connection and hopefully I will find love.

Thanks again!


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