Im probably going to delete this in a bit.

My boyfriend (or idk at this point) have dated since my sophomore year of high school. And I am one month away from graduating and he graduated last year. For reference his mom has always been controlling and dictated how long he could see me or how much money he could spend. It was always me walking on eggshells around her when i came to visit his house. In the fall of 2025, when he started college, she started not letting him come to see me when he came home for the weekend (mind you we were neighbors) because she said he didnt care about her and saw me too much.

Then a month later she forced him to break up with me (we dated for almost three years) but then she changed her mind a day later and we got back together. This really hurt me. Two months later she made him break up with me again for good (this was december), but I was really attached to him so we talked in secret and he promised we would get back together.

Worst part is, the day before she made him break up with me I had gotten accepted into the same college as him, with an insane scholarship and benefits, so i committed there. He told his dad we were dating again in feb and he said to hide it from his mom until this September. So he hasn't told anyone and our social medias look like were single and stuff. Im starting to grow lots of resentment for the way everything has turned out this past year, but I am still holding on because we are going to the same college in a couple months and im hoping something will change. Can someone tell me what they think.

TL; DR Help idk what to write here


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