My (23F) bf (23M) of 5 years, stepped in and helped another girl (20) from getting physically assaulted. She was at a bus stop getting abused by another man, and he stopped the car in the middle of the road, got into a fight with him and dropped her off home. I was at work when all of this was happening.
I am so proud of my bf for doing this and i am so happy he did!
They exchanged numbers, HOWEVER, they have been texting quite often. She sent me a message saying thank you, which was nice of her.
I’m worried that she now has a little bit of an attachment to him, which I understand can be natural but did this open a new window of opportunity? Perhaps he also has an attachment to her bc he pretty much saved her? He has never gotten into an altercation for me, and I feel like they share something I would never share with him.
They’ve been texting quite a bit, and he says shes a really nice girl, but I just can’t get my head around whether my feelings are valid or not? Has anyone else gone through this? I’ve spoken to him about it, but he doesn’t understand how I’m feeling and what I see. I told him I’m happy he helped her out, but there is an attachment that comes with that, and the regular texting about random little things, are making me a little bit uncomfortable.
tl;dr : my bf saved another girl from being physically assaulted, took her home (i’m proud of him for this) and exchanged numbers. She sent me a message. Now she and my bf text regularly throughout the day. I think they have some sort of attachment together. Idk how to process it. Need advice.