It's not a gag reflex or enthusiasm issue. My problem is that, when it's in my mouth, I have no idea how to actually create suction?? Air always escapes somehow. And it's not like I don't know how to suck anything, I can do it with a bottle or whatever other object — I think it's how I'm wrapping my lips around it or maybe I get it too wet with my saliva?
I haven't been able to get him to cum from just a bj (usually he jerks himself off while I suck/lick his balls to finish) but I really want to. He's also my first so I'm not sure if his size is contributing to this, though I'm pretty sure I'd be able to do it if he was smaller. Please send help 😭 I haven't been able to find any posts about this exact issue so I feel like I'm doing something really wrong