Long story short she snores extremely loud. Wev been together for 3 years. We’ve tried practically everything on both ends. Ear plugs, sound machines, mouth tape. We tried a mouthguard, and it worked super well, but she says it hurts her jaw so she threw it away. We tried an at home sleep study through her doctor, but she pretty much stayed up all night with it, then when they analyzed it, they said she didn’t necessarily need a CPAP. However, I hear these at home tests are awful..
This has been a massive pain point in our relationship. I tell her how poorly I’m sleeping because of her snoring and initially she wants to help, but she also get extremely defensive and gets upset with me. She accuses me of trying to break up with her (she has a massive abandonment fear). I don’t even know how to respond to this. Like I am the one suffering and she gets upset with me.
What do I do? I’m considering breaking up over this because I can’t live like this. Does anyone have any ideas???
TL;DR my girlfriend snores very loud and has not put sufficient effort to fix it. What do I do? Is breaking up with her unreasonable?