Please can you help. I’ve been with my partner ‘45M’ for 3 years now and he’s never said I love you. He was going through a messy divorce when I met him and in hindsight I shoudl have walked away. He’s never prioritised me above his kids (which i understand) or his ex or work. When I asked him if he loved me he said it’s hard when you’re divorced and he’d think about it, this was last year. There was one instance where my car window was smashed an I asked him to take me to work as it was raining but he said no as he had to collect his kids later that day (this had no impact on collecting me). When I confronted him about it (bearing in mind he had taken his kids from his ex as she was going on holiday) he said his ex needed him. Anyway this past few months I’ve seen him make an effort but I couldn’t shift the feeling that he’d never love me so I stupidly started pulling back. Anyway he sent me this message last week and I’ve not heard since.
Sorry I haven’t been in touch much. I feel bad about it.
I’ve been feeling pretty low and have gone into a bit of a hermit mode, not like me but have felt like shutting myself off from everyone.
I’m tired and mentally drained, I don’t really know how else to put it.
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Any advice for what I should do next or does he just not love me like he did his ex?