I had a crush on him for like a couple of months and we finally started dating end of 2024. This was my first serious relationship where at one point i could actually see myself starting a family with him.At first it was great i was exited to answer his text and to see him and all that. But as it got closer to our one year anniversary i just lost all interest. I don’t feel exitement anymore i don’t look forward to seeing him and im not even physically attracted to him. Most of the time all he does is annoy me even when hes not really doing anything wrong. I know this has a lot to do with me than him because he really hasn’t done anything wrong besides misunderstand me at times.
Sometimes it feels like i start liking him again but it doesnt even last a couple of minutes and i start just disliking him again. Ive been trying to act like everything is normal but i really dont think i have it in me anymore to pretend like im still inlove with him. He deserves so much better than me and i dont want to feel so trapped anymore. I waited long enough to ensure its not just a phase but im still not sure. Maybe ill start liking him again? Maybe im just overthinking things and this is how relaships are? Has anyone felt like this before? Is this normal or is it a sign i should end things.
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Relationships go through phases, most of the times, the first one is the one where everything is new, and magical. Maybe you are going throught a rough one, and the next one will be better. There**’s no way to know. What you can do is talk to him about this. Tell him what you feel, even if you are not sure what to do about it. Maybe he feels the same way, maybe he doesn’t.**
Since you feel that way about him, it’s time to break up and move on.