I just read a post from a woman who is scared that planning a date, spending some money, and putting some effort in will freak a guy out and make her look desperate… after he's planned multiple dates…
It got me thinking… I've dated 6 women over the last 3 years at various times. Never once had they put a plan in action that was solely their idea. That it was meant to "take me out."
Eventually, it gets pretty frustrating feeling like you put in all the effort planning just for her to show up and never put any thoughts toward reciprocating.
Do women genuinely think not taking any ownership in dates is what they're supposed to be doing?