… and then you meet them and they clearly just want a hook up. I already know what people are mostly going to say: that Tinder/Bumble/Hinge is mostly people looking for hookups anyway so what did you expect but no, the majority of men I've met from apps are straight up and have pretty much aligned with what they have told him in our conversations on the phone. There's just some i've noticed that select the "long-term, open to short" option and I meet them and they're trying to get in your pants the first day it just makes me question why did you even bother putting your dating goal on your profile you could've just left it blank or reveal that to me at any time we were conversing before we met. I met up with a guy last night and he was very cute, way cuter in person honestly and we had a solid banter over the phone the whole time leading up to hanging out, the conversation was not centered on anything sexual, then meeting him he just didnt really seem interested in doing anything but that😅 just made me feel like I wasted my time and honestly embarassed for him that he felt the need to hide his true intentions. Frankly we're in our late 20's that's a little immature.
I guess I just wanted to see other peoples perspective on this situation and maybe how I can be more cautious moving forward but maybe I will continue to take a step back from dating again, I was already hesitant to meet up with anyone in general.❤️