I'm a late bloomer who had his first romantic fling at 29.
I put a lot of effort. I take them on awesome dates. I do a lot.
I love spending time with them and all the lovey dovey stuff.
But, I never had a past. I really feel underappreciated. I feel they'd leave if I'm not doing all these. That's my first insecurity.
I feel that the guys in their past could get away with a lot of not so good behaviour. I feel the girls gave themselves to those guys who hardly put any effort and made them feel good.
Of course, it's for their good. They've now learnt and upgraded their standards and enforce better boundaries.
But I also badly want to experience that innocent love instead of highly mature and strategic decisions.
Again I know it's not the woman's fault at all – they've learnt from their experiences and are setting better standards with me.
But I want advice on how to get over these feelings 💔