I’m 21F and recently slept with a male friend (28M) for the first time after being celibate for about 4 years. Before we met up, we were talking every day, sending each other TikToks, and he was the one initiating and seemed really eager. The experience itself went well he finished, complimented me, and said he wanted to see me again. He said he wants to see me again and my skill is good so he’s definitely coming back.
But since Sunday, his communication has completely dropped. He hasn’t responded to anything I’ve sent, even though before we spoke daily. It’s confusing because his behavior before and during doesn’t match how he’s acting now, especially since he said he’s not usually into casual situations.
Would really appreciate actionable advice should I reach out directly for clarity, leave it and see if he comes back, or just move on? What would you do in this situation?