I decided to take space from a friend because the relationship felt emotionally draining and unhealthy for me. I sent her a message explaining that I needed distance and expected a calm response.

Instead, she started crying, sent me videos of herself crying, kept calling me repeatedly, and begged me not to leave. She said she loves me, doesn’t want to lose me, and promised to change her behavior.

We talked a lot and ended up reconciling. But honestly, I don’t believe she can truly change based on her past behavior.

I only have about two months left before I move to a new place. I’m not sure what the healthiest way to handle this situation is during that time, and I would really appreciate advice on how to approach it.


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