I have some friends that I made in college and I absolutely love hanging out with them in person. I even have some classmates I like to talk to in person. However, when it comes to things like winter/summer break or after class, I often fail to keep up with them online. I absolutely hate texting and I often forget to text back. I want to start calling people but I feel like people find calling and FaceTime kinda weird if you haven’t really known them for that long or weren’t already doing it to begin with. I feel like I’m just making excuses actually, but now I realize that I can be extremely awkward on the phone and make what I am saying incredibly weird.
I sometimes feel lonely and that I do not have many friends because I am a biomed major and I often time do not have time to hang out with people outside of class. When I meet a friendly classmate, I will often only hang out with them once and then forget to keep up the communication because I often get caught up in work or other things stressing me.
Any advice? Is there something wrong with me?
2 comments
Hey. There is nothing wrong in you. This happens often with people.
I completely get that you’re not good at texting and this is very normal.
Try calling up people may be just as Audio if you find video call weird.
Trust me initially you’ll find this awkward but eventually things will be normal between you and your friends 🌿
Call them, some people say is better to apologize than ask.
And there is nothing wrong with you, before jumping to conclusion’s maybe you can call them and ask them what’s up.