I’m 37 and she’s 54.. is that weird?
The backstory – I’ve dated on and off over the years and have had 3 serious relationships lasting yearsss. They ended because of forms of cheating on their end or being controlled by their girlfriends or parents. It’s annoying and I think it’s this generation. I got fed up with it and on a dating app I amt he’d with this current 54 yo women. She lives 2 hours from me. I asked her if she’s down to fuck and she said (over the course of 30 minutes) come over, and it was game on. She came down and got a hotel multiple times over the next few months but she was getting feelings and so was I . But dating her feels like a risk .. that she will die soon of old age ha! Not really, well maybe kinda, the idea she can sleep with a stranger within 30 minutes cares the shit out of me. Add on that that she apparently was at a club 2 years prior and met some black dude and did the same thing because she was leaving her husband of 30 years etc etc . Just seems like a lottttt and I’m having trouble getting over it. Almost like she has wild tendencies. Thought? Boot her? Trust her? I’m ruminating on how me meet and some of the other sketchy behavior she did. Yes, I know I participated too.. but that was only under the context of keeping it just sex. She shorty after started pushing for more, even though sex has nalways been a huge part of this.