I started speaking to a guy 5 months ago, he lives about an hour away and we’ve met twice for coffee and get on really well. Our chat is always text and we have shared with each other a lot of our kinks and fantasise about what we would like to do with each other.
My confusion is, he consistently tells me how much he wants to have sex and desires me but I’ve offered to meet 4 times for sex and each time he skirts around the topic or stops texting me back.
I finally asked him outright what the issue was saying if he wasn’t into me enough that’s totally ok! I loved being friends. He has replied saying he is and thinks about me all the time but is worried about ruining the friendship by sleeping together. My friends have called bullshit on this saying any man who wants you enough won’t let anything stop him from sleeping with you (even potentially ruining a friendship)
I also think it’s strange as we’ve only met twice and although we talk almost every day is that really a friendship?
Men please can you tell me, are my friends right and he actually just isn’t that into me? If so why does he continue sexting me