I’m a 28 year old virgin guy. Not for any religious reason, just very shy and spent my whole life with very low self esteem because of my weight. I’ve lost 50+ pounds over the past year and am consistently losing more.
I’m going to be honest, the main reason I am losing weight is to have a sex life. I know tons of fat people have very active sex lives, but it feels impossible for me unless I lose the weight. I’m simply not attractive to the people I want to be with, and that includes overweight women.
However, I’m worried that even if I lose the weight the ship has sailed on a normal and fun sex life. The older I get the more of a red flag and dealbreaker my inexperience becomes. Women my age won’t want to deal with someone who has literally no sexual experience. Plus, I feel like everyone my age is settling down. They’ve had their fun, now it’s about dating to marry. It feels like I missed the fun part, it’s too serious now.
Do I have reason to worry or is this all in my head?