ok idk how to word this but I’ll try
do people have to actively give energy to have a fun personality and be interesting in conversations. as in ask themselves how they want to respond or think about what would be funny
I ask this bc I feel like a couple months ago I used to actively almost ask myself ‘what would I do’ to say things that weren’t just plain boring but I felt like that was being fake so instopped but now I’m just like bland I feel like I lost my personality. but also I feel like when I asked myself what I’d do it was almost fake because I was creating a persona in a way.
i guess I just wanna know if other people normally have to consider things like that in conversation