I (27m) have been on a few (maybe 5 or 6?) first dates in the past year and most of them felt like a sure thing for a second date however I’ve been consistently getting ghosted. Usually I’ll take the girl out to eat (I always insist on paying) and then if I feel like it’s going well I’ll ask if they want to get some drinks somewhere afterwards. What I think is odd is that they’ll wait a few days to just stop responding and I’ve even had a couple girls say we’re definitely on for a second date and then I’ll never hear from them again. I’ll send a text out after a few days just asking if they’re still interested in going out again in an attempt to respect their space but still get a straightforward answer so I’m not just left wondering but still get no response. I’m no model by any means but I know I’m definitely athletic and fairly attractive. I don’t make millions but I do make pretty good money as I own my own contracting business. I’ve never had a problem making friends in general so I know my social skills are fine and I never try to have sex on the first date (I’ve had some makeout sessions but I always let them initiate). There has to be something that I’m overlooking that’s turning girls off from me and I’m looking for suggestions on what they could be and/or things I could do to see more success in this area. I fully understand that I’m not everyone’s type and that’s cool but it seems like I’m nobody’s type haha. If there’s any questions that can help clarify things I’ll answer them honestly. Thank you all in advance!