My girlfriend is bisexual and recently told me that her close friend pulled her aside and said she thinks she should be with a woman instead of being with me.
I wasn’t there when it happened so I don’t know the full context. Maybe there was a conversation that led to it, maybe it came out of nowhere. My girlfriend didn’t seem too bothered and kind of brushed it off, but she did tell me about it.
I guess my question is; is this something a friend should be saying? It feels like a weird thing to tell someone in a relationship of over half a year, but I also don’t want to judge it without knowing what led up to it. Could there be a context where this is normal or okay?
Not trying to start drama with the friend, I just want to understand if this is something worth addressing or if I should let it go.
Edit: Since people are asking for more context. Yes the friend is into women but she has a long term partner so I’m very sure she’s not trying to get with my girlfriend. Also I’d like to think that my relationship with my girlfriend is really good. We’ve never really had any big fights or anything like that. We both support each other well and neither of us have brought up any unhappiness. I can’t think of any reason why there’d be a problem in our relationship.