I 23m met a woman on hinge and we hit it off decently. Have similar interests and some similar morals. She dropped a dealbreaker of she wants to wait until marriage. I respect that boundary she has but I simply have reflected a lot on myself about this. I struggle with porn currently and have had 3 sexual partners in the past. In relationships I’ve found that sex for me helps me feel connected, bonded, and simply intimate with my partner. I would like to be rid of porn and I’m actively working to do that. I consider myself a Christian and I know a lot of people will say I simply should not fornicate or watch porn. My current feeling is I’m probably wasting this poor woman’s time because odds are I simply won’t want to date with that limitation. I believe the stats are over 90 percent of couples have sex before marriage. Not trying to say it’s not a sin in my religion. I’m simply saying it’s common and I’m trying to do the right thing for her and myself. Part of me also wonders if I simply shouldn’t date right now. I live with my parents and I’m trying to find a better job to get more income. I’m also doing graduate school. This is something that has been weighing on me a lot recently. Some part of me says I should simply go on the date and worse case scenario be honest with her. Then she gets the truth plus a free meal so hopefully it’s not too bad. I simply feel lost and stressed about the whole situation. I feel like a bad person and bad man. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.