Anyone have any thoughts/experience dating someone who is deeply apart of a fandom for a singer they are obsessed with? Particularly one that they have a crush/obsession on? I (25f) am talking to a 27m and he is decently open about his love for a certain j-pop singer, he has her fandom name in his bio, has pictures of her on his socials, and most of the music he listens to is hers.
I’m not saying it’s wrong of him to have this interest !! But I’ve never really been one to obsess or idolize any kind of celebrity, so I’m not sure how to feel about it and it obviously makes me a lil insecure bc it seems like he may have a type that is 100% not me.
Any thoughts or personal experiences that y’all can give me?