I (24F) was seeing a guy (24M) for a few weeks/months and things were genuinely going really well. We went on quite a few dates, had loads in common, and I felt really comfortable being myself around him.
He introduced me to his sister and some of his friends, and he also met my friends and family. It felt like things were naturally progressing without any pressure.
He’s never been in a relationship before and I was his first sexual experience.
At one point we had a conversation about relationships where I told him there was no pressure, we didn’t need to rush into anything, and we could just enjoy spending time together and see where things go. He said that conversation made him feel a lot better at the time.
But later on, he ended things saying he “couldn’t commit” and that he doesn’t understand why he feels that way. He said I’m his type, that I didn’t do anything wrong, and that he didn’t want to lead me on.
He also told me he’d spoken to his friends about it and had even described me as his “dream girl,” which is why it’s confusing to me that he still couldn’t move forward.
what might be going on here? Is this just fear/inexperience, or does it usually mean something else?