Brief backdrop… Me a 42M going through a divorce that’s fortunately amicable put myself on a website that more for FWB than anything else. I was honest in my bio, said I’m divorced, content with the two kids I have, and wasn’t looking for anything serious right now.
A few weeks go by and I rarely check the site, until I get a direct DM from a woman with no picture on her profile. We talk casually for a few days, nothing serious or sexual. She asks to move to a different platform to communicate and I hesitate (scammers, bots, etc) but agree. She send me a pic on the new platform and I’m immediately thinking no way this is a real woman. She’s a natural 10 from what I can tell. We continue to talk, all the while I’m thinking “this has got to be a bot”. I ask more detailed questions, personal details, family history kinda stuff, work, travel etc. Just waiting for a clear sign that this woman isn’t real, but nothing, answers and history check out. She send more pics, all SFW, and they all check out. Right amount of fingers, name brand clothing that’s actually for sale online and so on. I even run the pics through AI and ask if it’s one of their works or a real woman and every picture I ran AI said with 90-98% certainties that this was a real woman. She’s sent me about a dozen pics of herself at this point and I can’t find any trace of AI in them. We’ve traded pics back and forth and talked everyday for a week now.
I find out that not only is she a 10+ but that she’s also successful, runs her own company, and has no need for financial support. It naturally came up in conversation, I didn’t ask.
My question is, as a decent looking but no genetic lottery winner can this happen? I feel like this woman could land any man she set her eyes on, but for some reason she’s talking to me. I’m tickled by it truly, and I’m generally a confident man but having someone who’s beautiful and successful a few levels above me in both regards is making my head spin. I guess I’m just trying to figure out why she would give me a chance at all? I’m divorced, with kids, and a 7 at best. She’s 7yrs younger, stunning, successful, with no kids. Am I being too hard on myself? Do some women like this actually go for men not in their stereotypical league? Or is this still just an elaborate AI bot or prank I’m part of? Uhh, I’m rarely this unsure of things but my heart is racing and I need some advice. Thanks!
Edit: yes we have video called twice, it was lovely and if felt like we really connected.