I (25M) moved from a big city to a smaller one (about 200 000 people) some time ago and I wanted to start dating here. The problem is, people my age are…. nowhere to be found. I regularly go to pubs, cocktail bars, cafés, concerts, film festivals etc, and the vast majority of customers are in their 40s. It wasn't like that in the city I lived previously, where bars and restaurants were packed with people in their twenties. I just don't get it, did they all leave to bigger cities? Or am I doing something wrong?