So I (22F) not really self conscious at all, I have actually come to love my body and I’m on a weight loss journey and I’m not huge or anything. Just wanted to begin saying that.
I got a divorce almost a year ago and I am only now trying to date again. I have little experience because I was in such a long term relationship, which is why this has come to somewhat of a shock for me. Most men that actually want to match with me on any dating websites are fetishizing plus size bodies, are feeders, etc. I’m appalled by this.
I’d rather not use dating apps at all, they aren’t my thing, but my friend suggested I do just for shits and giggles. I started this only four days ago and I’m already giving up. I’ll take any advice anyone can throw at me.
TLDR; How do I find men who don’t see my body as a tool for their fetish?