I’m f21 and so far dating apps have been a all around nightmare for so many reasons. I’ve always been good with approaching guys at bars/clubs but when I’m sober somewhere less about meeting people I can’t seem to do it. so for the men or other women that have experience, what’s the best way to approach a guy in public? What can I say and also where should I go?
I definitely can’t use any of my conversation starters or anything I use at a bar/club and i haven’t really been going to them as much now either plus guys almost always just want to hookup if you meet them at a bar or club so that’s not really the best option either
Please be realistic sometimes I see on here people saying they want to be approached whenever and to just spark a conversation about anything but in reality no one is doing that sort of thing in a grocery store or mall or something and a lot of the time there also isn’t something obvious to spark a conversation about.