I just moved into my first house. I’ve spent 3 years living in an apartment with my boyfriend and we were always very quiet because it’s embarrassing for others to hear us have sex so we were excited to have our own place. We don’t even share fences with our neighbors but we had sex for the first time… and I forgot how LOUD I am. I’m now super self conscious about whether or not our neighbors can hear me and my boyfriend now thinks I’m not enjoying sex as much because I’m thinking too much about being heard. But we also keep the windows closed so maybe I’m thinking too much but I don’t want to piss off our new neighbors because I’m loud.