For some context, I found out that my ex boyfriend was cheating on me during Valentine's Day with a guy from Snapchat that he was consistently sending nude pictures to. I've been working these past few weeks to focus on hobbies and also a new insurance job that I recently got.
One thing specifically got to me, and that was him saying I couldn't find anyone else with the way I am. I just felt a need to prove to myself that I can connect with other people. So I met my date on Hinge where we matched and we went to an escape room today followed by dinner.
During the date, I was pretty straightforward about everything including my ex boyfriend and that we broke up recently. I also said that I'm worried that I might not be able to have a healthy relationship with him due to the fact it was pretty recent and that there were many issues. He said that he was also worried that we were in different stages of life. We kept things completely PG and did not kiss or take things further and intend to hang out again soon. Is there any way I can make a healthy relationship out of this? What steps could I take to do that?