When you open his phone to make sure his alarms are set for work before plugging in the phone to the charger for him and the first thing that pops up when you open the phone is a Google search (in private mode) of a female influencer name with the word “nude” after it. Then 3 weeks later open the phone to a porn site with a different females name in the search bar. Then you decide to go through their Facebook activity log and find that he’s clicking on pretty much naked females pages that have huge tits, banging bods, jumping up and down, taking shirt off, pretending to be a doctor being came on, sucking d***, saying sexually provocative things AND it’s multiple different females… (keep in mind he’s falling asleep doing these things bc he falls asleep with his phone in his hand and I’m in the other room taking care of our babies while he goes to bed early bc of his work schedule) is this cheating? What would you do?
Oh and also, if he told you that a girl from work kept asking him to lunch but he kept telling her no so you go through his work phone and find deleted texts to that female coworker of him saying she can pick any place and he will take her. Is that cheating? And what would you do? He said he never ended up taking her and that he only deleted the texts bc if I found the texts I would be “childish” about it..