A couple months ago i started talking to this guy. was going well but everyday yk like most men.. would try to start freaky conversations. im 20, a virgin and never had a real boyfriend before. not because i’m saving myself or anything like that but i would just rather do it with someone i actually have a connection with than some random. but anyways so like i said going good but then i revealed to him that i was a virgin and after i told him i kinda felt the energy shift in whatever we had going on. i felt like our freaky convos would increase more than our genuine conversations. so shortly after that, my friend (who was also his friend) told me that he said we can only be friends and he doesn’t want to be with me because im a virgin. hearing that was kinda hurtful because i feel like nobody wants to fuck the virgin mary and on top of that i felt like it was embarrassing because my friend heard this to and the only thing i could say was “oh”. i know that its not something i can control but how is it supposed to happen if nobody wants to commit to it. has anyone ever experienced anything like this as a virgin? literally getting rejected because you’re a virgin?


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