42m here, been in the dating scene for about a year. Struggling to find a woman who matches my vibe. I get plenty of matches, but rarely real connection. And the people I do really vibe with seem to either want more or less than I have to offer. I’m an attractive dude(not ego, trust me just parroting), not hella successful but not a loser either, my one child is grown up and moved away. I’m pretty straightforward about just wanting a casual dating relationship. Not looking for another wife, or more kids. Just fun dates and someone I can vibe with as our schedules allow. Problem is, I keep getting one end of the spectrum or another, women looking to settle down and build families or women who are incredibly evasive and dry. I’ve went on dates, had hook ups, even had a couple of false starts on relationships. But they all end the same. I don’t want to move in with anyone, but I’m also kinda tired of this constant revolving door of people feigning interest. Any thoughts or advice?