23 and never been invited to a house party before. i have friends who go to parties and idek how they find out about them. mentioned to my best friend a few times about how i want to go to more parties and if i could go along w her sometime but she always said no. stopped asking cause i dont wanna be annoying. i drink & go out to bars with friends so its not like people dont think i would want to go. plus im usually the one asking people to hangout, i’m almost never on the receiving end. and ik common advice is to just “show up” but i dont even know where theyre happening plus i wouldnt be comfortable with that 🤷♀️
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Low self-esteem means boring personality means people don’t want you around and hence don’t invite you.
I think you either need new friends or work on your social skills. What do you think is more fitting?
I always would find myself making like one extraverted friend and that friend would invite me along to like everything they did. I wish I had been able to generate the invites myself but hey at least I was able to show up.