This is mostly aimed at the women but I’ve (31F) returned to dating apps (just hinge and bumble) after not using them for a few years and I’m just baffled. After a week, I’m questioning if I’m actually still attracted to men? I’m trying to figure out if this is just my city but the bulk of profiles are negative (“don’t expect me to take you on a date first”), mention some type of femininity or submission, or they’re mentioning some kind of sex. There’s also the issue of men not adding their political affiliations so I can’t exactly weed effectively. I don’t remember it being this bad. Is this the standard or should I be using other apps? I also don’t see the point in paying for premium but are there any women that do?