so i’m a bit new to sex lol and im just getting into the vanilla kinks and positions.
my partner recently described that he’d like to “look into (my) beautiful eyes as (he) goes in and out of my mouth, and fuck my face” and this is the “most extreme” like sub dom sex position we’ve talked about.
i’m very cognisant of the emotional aspect of sex and i haven’t experienced it enough to build myself to the “use me” or submissive level for my man (even though id eventually want to because i am interested in that dynamic).
so im just a bit weary – is face fucking still an expression of love for people who give/receive it and if so, how did you navigate through any emotional reservations?
i think ive always been into rough sex, but actually hearing him desire that kinda made me nervous because i always want mutual respect during intimacy sharing. for the guys who desire it with their partner (long term), are there implications to your respect for that person? as in, do you still love them the same and it’s purely about the dynamic that you like?