My post is getting a lot of attention and since the daily discussion thread is going to be locked soon, I want to continue the discussion here. What I originally wrote:
This might sound bad, but is it wrong of me to be a bit disappointed that the girl I had a third date with tonight (the one I mentioned earlier in this thread), didn't dress to impress? Most people would put some effort into looking good when going out, especially if they're going on a date. But again, she came wearing a sweater and sweat pants. It's not like she went to the gym earlier either. She literally showed up like a college girl going for a quick supermarket run.
To add to this, it's not so much the choice of clothing, but how the outfit comes together. We want to look attractive and presentable on a daily basis. Yet in the daily discussion thread, a lot of people are generally saying I'm expecting too much? I'm not so sure I agree on this. If we look outside, most people are well dressed because we want to be perceived in a positive way. It's why we dress appropriately and presentable for work, even if I, as a man, don't wear a dress shirt in the office. When I wear sweaters for work, I make sure it's a nicer sweater and not something like I would wear when I'm lounging around at home.