I dated a guy years ago and we’ve slept together at times since, between periods of not talking at all. I love and care about him deeply and know he feels the same for me, but because of our complicated history he has always ruled out a relationship again. I’ve told him how I feel about him a few times and he doesn’t feel the same. Obviously, I eventually got the message and really felt ok about the whole thing over the last few months and care about him platonically and nothing more.
We’ve slept together a few times recently, and I can’t help feeling in a small part of me that we will be together someday. I know this sounds incredibly naive and if anything was going to happen it would have by now. I’ve dated quite a few guys in the last few years and none compare. I’m starting to think even if it doesn’t work with this guy (I know, it’s likely), I don’t want to be with anyone else anyway. So I don’t care that I’m wasting my time.
I know some people won’t want to give me false hope, but I’m in the mood to fantasise. Has anyone ever changed their mind about you, or vice verse, unexpectedly?