This is so TMI, but I really need help. Before I say ANYTHING, yes I am legal age and I am in fact a virgin. I've been talking to this guy (long distance) for a while now, and he's considering flying over to see me soon. Him and I have gotten pretty freaky on the phone and stuff, (lol) and I DEFINITELY didn't want my first penetration experience to be during intimacy, since it's MORE than likely we'll have sex when we see each other. So I ordered my VERY first toy and it came in yesterday. Mind you, I have NEVER bought a toy in my LIFE. Unfortunately, my dumbass didn't even think about how to use it or doing research on how. I tried last night and of course it did not work. I know I need to get lube at some point and I've heard some talk about fingering. The thing is I've never pleased myself using the fingering method because it just doesn't really feel like anything, and it lowkey hurts ngl. I have my own ways of satisfying myself, but like when I try fingering myself, it's just like "okay, I guess it's in" But it doesn't feel the greatest. Some tips would REALLY be useful. PLEASE help me out!🙏