I'm 32F, my bf is 30M and this is my first boyfriend and everything was going great, we've been together since June 2025. We were great together last year, hardly ever fought. Now, that's all we do. I find him condescending, rude. He won't take accountability for anything. I've apologized for snapping at him at times when I have and I have no problem doing so. He lives an hour away from me and doesn't drive so I drive to him and drive him around the town he lives in. He doesn't give me gas money but we decided we would maybe go out for dinner instead and he pays for that but he's complaining about it, even though he goes out a few times a week to eat. Because he has no license or car, but he rents a room in an apartment building and has told me I should get rid of my car because he believes I shouldn't have a premium car. Its a 2021 Buick and I make payments. I live with my parents to save up for my own place, without roommates and he's on my case about it. I tell him I will move out when I'm good and ready.
When we first started dating he use to keep his place clean and tidy, made sure I had everything I needed. Now I go to his place, there's garbage everywhere on the bathroom floor. I don't even have a towel anymore, let alone fresh water. Its like he's done a total 360. I asked him if it was depression and he said nope, he's fine and that not everything is going to be sunshine and roses but Idk what to do.
Am I crazy?